This blog post is about a heartbroken father who is being deprived of developing a close positive relationship with his own son. This has been going on for several years now. As a result, his son hardly ever makes the mandatory court ordered phone calls to his father at the appointed days and time; nor does the
son go visit with his father whenever the father makes court ordered travel arrangements. For example, the son's mother refuses to send the
son during the Christmas Holidays; nor does she allow the son to call his father on his birthday or father’s day, nor does the father ever hear about special events in his son's life from the son, or his mother. The father is never invited to anything that his son may be doing. She also does not allow for the father to call his son, as she has the father’s number blocked. However, during one call that did take place recently, the son told his own father that he has several other men in his life that have taken his father's place. The son then said to his own father that his father is only a biological donor and that is all. The son and his father are obvious victims of parental alienation brought on by a woman who may be suffering from narcissistic personality disorder.
Let’s hope that this will not continue because according to various academic authors, a child who learns these behaviors from the custodial parent often carries on such traits with his or her own children and grandchildren. Therefore, a major intervention by trained professionals can intervene to help the mother, the son, and his father; and hopefully sooner rather than later as some children tend to abuse drugs and alcohol, or even commit suicide to free them self from the narcissistic parent. To prevent the worst from ever happening, the father only wishes to show his love and concern by reestablishing a positive father-son relationship.
