Tuesday, August 5, 2014

Changes in Tennessee’s parental custody laws | WREG.com

No parent should be deprived of their child no matter what disagreements go own between the parents. Guys, I have suffered greatly as my youngest son has been alienated from me for several years. The last time I saw him, he was a reluctant 13 year old; the time before that he was a sweet 8 year old torn away from me forever as long as his mother had her say about it. After that last visitation, I was flat out refused any contact with my son and few, if any phone calls took place since then. Even when, I sent bus tickets, she refused to send me my son for visitation, not even on Father's Day or Christmas or Thanksgiving or family reunions. Last time I talked to him, him he was 15 years old. By this time, he was telling me that I was only a biological sperm donor, not his real father; that he had other men in is life to fill that void. I do not blame my son for this at all. He is blameless in my eyes. But, I did not just take this sitting down. I started this blog for a point of reference for whenever I would talk to various lawmakers to say to them that we must end family law as it has been practiced here in the State of Tennessee. Short of being a child molester a parent should be able to spend half of each year with their child no matter what the other parent has to say about it otherwise and have full access to all records and activities all year long. Today, this bill is a real game changer for custody law. Moreover, it perhaps reverses child custody going primarily to mothers the majority of the time whereby many mother's more often than not push father's out of their child's life forever if they can, and make ongoing false claims not only to the child, but to the court system, which then bars mostly the father from any visitation --- well, not any more. Men can take back some positive control of their children's fate. Of course, this is not my bill. I do not take any credit for it at all. But, I do have one voice that is being heard over and over again because I am providing this blog that shows up at the top of online list across this state; and along with many other great blogs, we are all being heard. Through my own blog, I am speaking up for all good father's like myself. And that woman thought I was down for the count; that I was not working and just lying around sorely depressed over my circumstances all the time. Let me tell you something women: the best work that I have ever done in my life is out of love for my children and I will do this absolutely free of charge forever; that is right, I did not get paid for this work, but my words will live on forever and they have a lot of value since they are coming from a father like me who loves his own children so very much. My words are paying off in big dividends now, not only for me, but for all parents and children in the State of Tennessee who have been suffering from parental alienation syndrome. PEACE & LOVE





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Sunday, March 16, 2014

WhY ArE YoU AbUsInG OuR SoN?


This blog post is about a heartbroken father who is being deprived of developing a close positive relationship with his own son. This has been going on for several years now. As a result, his son hardly ever makes the mandatory court ordered phone calls to his father at the appointed days and time; nor does the son go visit with his father whenever the father makes court ordered travel arrangements. For example, the son's mother refuses to send the son during the Christmas Holidays; nor does she allow the son to call his father on his birthday or father’s day, nor does the father ever hear about special events in his son's life from the son, or his mother. The father is never invited to anything that his son may be doing. She also does not allow for the father to call his son, as she has the father’s number blocked. However, during one call that did take place recently, the son told his own father that he has several other men in his life that have taken his father's place. The son then said to his own father that his father is only a biological donor and that is all. The son and his father are obvious victims of parental alienation brought on by a woman who may be suffering from narcissistic personality disorder.  Let’s hope that this will not continue because according to various academic authors, a child who learns these behaviors from the custodial parent often carries on such traits with his or her own children and grandchildren. Therefore, a major intervention by trained professionals can intervene to help the mother, the son, and his father; and hopefully sooner rather than later as some children tend to abuse drugs and alcohol, or even commit suicide to free them self from the narcissistic parent. To prevent the worst from ever happening, the father only wishes to show his love and concern by reestablishing a positive father-son relationship.